Tuesday, September 24, 2013

The Power of Story


This last weekend was the Library of Congress Book Festival weekend, a second time around for us at an incredible annual gathering of authors and bookies.  The capitol mall was filled with giant tents, each presenting a different author every hour for two days!  A reader can get punch-drunk on the delight of it all.  Visit www.loc.gov/bookfest for a run down of the fun, and get out here next year - third weekend in September.  You can stay at our house.



I was able to attend because Dwight and my dear friend Libby, here from Madison to take care of me, pushed me around in a wheelchair (and, I will add, Libby and I successfully navigated the handicap facilities of the Metro and a taxi to get to dinner at an Ethiopian restaurant and home).

Maybe it was the particular authors I chose to hear, and maybe it was the message I was listening for, but I heard a recurring theme about the power of story.  Power to help us see different realities, power to help us understand ourselves, power to motivate, power to harm, and power to heal.  It's a favorite theme of mine -- story -- for teaching, sharing, and making sense of my own life.


Can't wait to read her book!
Allison Hagy, an author previously unknown to me, spoke about the essential ingredients of story as the triad of Beauty, Community, and Mystery.  She told of her newest book, Boleto, about a young horse trainer in Wyoming, and how she sought to express the meaning in her character's life through the lenses of these things.  As she spoke I pondered the necessity of love in my life, and its expression through beauty, community and mystery.  And then my mind wandered to the realities of suffering, faith, and even how I create my home, all seen through that essential triad.  Thankyou, Ms. Hagy, for offering this elegant framework.
 


Katherine Paterson, author of many essential stories for older kids/young adults, was so genuine, so engaging, so much like the best friend we all want to be to our dear friends.  Her stories about her stories reflect a time of life and a sense of place at the time of their writing, all with a connection to the developing soul of the author and the reader.  Special story:  The Bridge to Terabithia was written when she lived in our town, Takoma Park. Neighborhood lore had it that she lived in our house when she wrote the book.  My special status as a wheel chair gal won me a private audience with Ms. Paterson (be still oh my heart!) where she, sadly, debunked the myth.  "No," she said, "I lived on Albany Street.  If I were a nicer person I would come to live with you for a couple of days so you could truthfully say I lived in your house!"  I don't think she could be any nicer - and I say that in the deepest Soul-Sister sense of the word.


One More:  Juan Felipe Herrera, Poet Laureate of California. How could I not attend a session with someone from my part of the world?  He is a Central Valley native, someone who, like me, holds the beauty of spring blossoms, the prickly heat of July, and the mystical tule fog in his marrow.  Juan Felipe and I have a friend in common, and it was a balm to connect with him.  His poems tell many stories, often of pain, violence, injustice - a startling contrast to his gentle and playful demeanor.
 
People who study memory tell us that our memories are not reliably recorded from our senses to our brains.  Rather, memories are something we construct and reconstruct as we move through life, using those stories from our past to create meaning and inevitably changing or omitting details, suddenly remembering a lost moment, reframing an encounter, connecting the dots of our experience.


What happens if take my own life story and reconstruct it through that triad of Beauty, Community and Mystery?  How different would that be than if the construction was done through a lens of Striving, or Independence or Certainty? What if I sought to tell my story in a way that might contribute to the development of my own soul as well as the soul of any listener I might have?  What if, even when facing the hard stuff of life, I could hang on to some playfulness?
 

Sometimes I'm much too hard on myself (as many of us are) and wish I could see myself with the same generosity of spirit I try to extend to others.  My story, I must remind myself, has value because (like everyone else) I have value.

Eckhart Tolle says, "You are here to enable the divine purpose of the universe to unfold.  That is how important you are!"  

Heady stuff.  I like this from Dr. Seuss, too:

Today you are YOU, that is truer than true.  There is no one alive that is Youer than
You."